Team Dynamics: How to Help Your Team Members Use Their Unique Gifts

October 1, 2019

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This semester on Tuesdays we’re taking a deep dive into Young Life team dynamics. If you missed the first couple posts, check them out here:

This sixth post in the series was written by Tim Branch. 



Young Life can be one of
the most rewarding, amazing things you can possibly do.

It can also be one of
the hardest, most discouraging things you can possibly do.

Nothing pushes on your
insecurity like being alone in a lunchroom and having a table of sophomores
say, “Don’t you have friends your own age?”

When we sign up as
leaders, we sign up for that stuff. We sacrifice because Jesus did it for us
first.

But here’s the thing:

When you already don’t
really feel a sense of belonging on your team, or if you’re having a hard time
finding your place in the ministry…those confidence gut-punches start adding
up quick. 

Pretty soon, you start
having these thoughts:

  • Why am I
    still a Young Life leader, if all I do is fail at it? 
  • I don’t feel
    like I’m bringing anything to the team. 
  • Maybe I’ll
    just quit…I doubt anyone would care.

Every year, hundreds of
leaders with so much potential, quit leading. Many quit because they
never discovered how they “fit” into the team. 

And that sucks.

But the good news is, we
can do something about it. So let’s talk about how we can help all our
team members feel a deep sense of belonging—and make a massive, eternal impact.


3 ways we can help every leader feel a sense of
purpose on the team:

  • Figure out the unique
    giftings of ALL your fellow leaders.

Think about this:

You have all these
people on your team, good at different things. But a few things in Young Life are
normally praised above all others.

The people great at
program and skits? They get tons of applause. 

The people entertaining
a circle of 15 smiling high school kids? They look like the best leaders.

But those “celebrated”
things represent a tiny fraction of the spiritual gifts God has equipped
Young Life leaders with, to bring Jesus to our high school friends. 

What gifts might your
other leaders have, that might not have been called out yet? 

Nothing creates a sense
of belonging like knowing you offer something valuable to the team.

  • Consistently call
    those gifts out of your fellow leaders. 

There are so many
ways a leader can make a positive impact on the team. 

For instance:

  • Insightful, thoughtful leaders
    are often amazing at pastoral care, offering guidance and warmth to
    hurting kids.
  • Certain leaders have a warm
    presence and you can tell they’re wired to love kids extremely well. When
    kids feel unconditionally loved, their walls come tumbling down.
  • The more reserved leaders are
    amazing with wallflowers in the back of club, whereas the loud leaders
    overwhelm them. That gives your team the ability to reach a whole new type
    of kid.

The best Young Life
teams make sure EVERY leader knows they’re a necessary part of the Body.

  • Help your fellow
    leaders grow into those gifts.

Think of one single
leader on your team who may feel like they don’t help much. 

What would happen if
they grew into their unique gifts and used them in your ministry? 

They would change the
school!

If you get consistently
frustrated with a certain leader, think about this:  They might just
not have grown into their gifts yet. 

Each person was created
in God’s image. That means every leader has a unique mix of ingredients of
God’s personality, and that’s where their ministry potential lies. 

How can you see those
things in them, believing in them when maybe no one else ever has before? 

How can you help call
that out of them, identifying who they could become and helping them get
there—without forcing them into a role that feels unnatural to them?

Better yet, how can you start seeing those things in yourself?

The better we can care
for each other in community, the better we start working as one body. The way
we were originally designed to be.  

And that’s when amazing
things start happening in our Young Life clubs.

(P.S: A while back, I
wrote a 27-page ebook to help introverted leaders find their gifts. It’s called
Am I Really Cut Out for Young Life?
You can have a copy for free here.)


Written by Tim Branch. 

Tim is a blogger with 7 years of experience doing ministry with high schoolers. He writes at timbranch.com, a blog about how to understand your purpose and grow into who you were originally designed to be. He’s also a 5 on the Enneagram, which means he thinks too much and probably doesn’t take enough showers.



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