|Originally posted Sept of 2013.|
Our area has a tradition of starting each new school year off with an All-City Freshmen Club. I honestly wasn’t expecting many freshmen from our school to show, but to my pleasant surprise, a ton of them poured through the doors. Why did they come?
Not because they saw me at school and thought, “That guy sure looks super cool, I wanna go to his thing.” (By the way, I got made fun of in the lunchroom today for wearing Chacos by a kid wearing Vans. Seriously. Kids these days.)
They didn’t come because they heard we were giving away free iPads, which we weren’t, but that would have been cool.
They didn’t come because we have custom made Young Life corn hole boards, which we do, and that is cool.
They came because…. SENIORS INVITED THEM.
Do you remember when you were a freshmen? Seniors hung the moon. If a senior offered you a ride somewhere, you got in the car, it didn’t matter where you were going.
Seniors have unreal influence with freshmen. Our area does this great “Senior Leader” program (HT to Mike and Susie Fowler) where our staff folks train mature high school seniors to be YL senior leaders in their schools. Senior Leaders are asked to make sacrifices. They sign contracts committing to moral purity. They spend lots of gas $ picking up freshmen. They do contact work, skits at club, lead campaigners, lead a cabin at camp, and most other things that an adult YL leader does.
Today in the lunchroom a senior asked me “Why should I commit to being a ‘senior leader’ in Young Life instead of just doing the senior thing and living how I want this year?”
I told her a quote I once heard from a pretty wise man. “Whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me and for the gospel will save it.” (Mark 8:35) I also told her that she basically had two choices.
“You can spend your senior year doing what feels fun in the moment, but you’ll probably be constantly looking over your shoulder in fear of getting caught….and while you could make some fun memories… they might just turn into major regrets. OR…
You could lose YOUR life…and change the lives of a bunch of insecure and confused freshmen girls…and you probably won’t be as popular with the seniors. But…instead of guilt, fear, and regret, you’re gonna get something else. You’re going to get a phone call from a freshmen girl one night, crying, asking you for help and advice. And you’re going to get the chance to show her Jesus. To point her to the One who is our only hope. It’s your senior year. You’ve got to make the choice of how you want to spend it, and who you’re gonna live for.”
Seeing those newbies show up to Freshmen Club motivated me to continue to cast a vision for our seniors and upperclassmen, so we’re getting them together this Sunday night. We’re going to shoe-polish everyones’ windshields with “YL TONIGHT,” pray for our first club, and dream together about what God could do through them at their high school this year.
We’re also stealing an idea from Greg Stevens, a YL leader in Florida. Instead of “flyers” announcing club, we’re going to do “invitations” as pictured above. During our time on Sunday night we’re going to fold, stuff, and staple them together so upperclassmen can invite folks during school on Monday.
We find life when we give it away.